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Love and Humanity; Apathy and Dehumanization

Love is also the strands that weave us together into a cohesive and mutually cooperative web of humanity via humanization. Hate and apathy dissolves that, via dehumanization.

Artwork by Delphina Raven, lifeismymentor.com

Artwork by Delphina Raven,
lifeismymentor.com

They say love is a powerful thing. But…it’s becoming clear to me how few people actually really love, or know what love is, and most importantly, how fragile love also is. 

The pain of heartbreak is pretty much the only way for people to wake up to that realization, if they ever do; only after which can they hope to be diligent and disciplined to practice deliberately. Likely one of the saddest things in life. 

Hate and apathy are much easily accomplished than love. Trouble is, for some people, upon heartbreak, they descend into the pit of despair, hatred, or apathy. 

Love is also the strands that weave us together into a cohesive and mutually cooperative web of humanity via humanization. Hate and apathy dissolves that, via dehumanization. 

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The Educated Heart

A heart that is truly educated from life experiences and daily practice, not merely wearing of a cloak or badge of empathy, is the real deal.

It is what we do every day to nurture and foster in educating the heart that creates an outcome of an unpolluted, educated heart. Merely expecting that outcome is only a shell, a cloak, a badge, with zero substance, similarly to wearing an object or putting on an act merely serves as an empty symbolism of an empty heart full of mere weightless words.

Photo Credit: Delphina Raven, Grand Mesa, CO, USA

Photo Credit: Delphina Raven, Grand Mesa, CO, USA

An educated mind, without an educated heart, is a heartless and narcissistic menacing machine that manipulates, exploits, and tyrannizes. 

A heart that is truly educated from life experiences and daily practice, not merely wearing of a cloak or badge of empathy, is the real deal. 

It is what we do every day to nurture and foster in educating the heart that creates an outcome of an unpolluted, educated heart. Merely expecting that outcome is only a shell, a cloak, a badge, with zero substance, similarly to wearing an object or putting on an act merely serves as an empty symbolism of an empty heart full of mere weightless words. 

When the heart is truly full, such is the meaning of living mindfulness, because the origins of this word “mindfulness” come from the Chinese word, 念. The top component of the character means “fully in now”, and the bottom part means “heart”. In essence, mindfulness means “Heart fully in the Now”. In that vein, the mind is actually in the heart, not divorced from the heart. The heart is where love resides. 

When an educated heart is nurtured via daily practice, it won’t need grandstanding with moral superiority or a sense of righteousness or entitlement. Morals and ethics will simply be side effects or necessary consequences. Instead the educated mindful heart would be full of true and real humility, opening the path to true compassion. A truly compassionate and educated heart does not weaponize victimhood mindset, which in effect disempowers others; instead it continues to see people with different (and even opposing) viewpoints as human first, not dehumanize them, and it actually empowers the powerless. 

To continually nurture an educated heart is a daily practice in mindfulness. It is not for the lazy nor is it convenient or a wave of a magical wand. It is hard work. Everything that we do each day builds the groundwork for tomorrow, no matter what it is. So why not put a full heart into educating the mindful heart, toward building the web of humanity, instead of burning the bridges of humanity? 

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